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Child abuse is the mistreatment, or neglect of a child or adolescent by someone they trust or depend on, such as a parent, relative, or caregiver. Abuse is usually present in a child’s home or somewhere familiar to the child. There are several types of abuse. Some of the more common types are: Physical Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Neglect, and Emotional maltreatment.

“Child abuse casts a shadow the length of a lifetime.”



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The first step in helping abused children is learning to recognize signs of child abuse The presence of one sign does not necessarily prove that the child is being abused, however, if the signs are repetitive you should take a closer look into the situation. The following are some signs often associated with child abuse:

- Shows changes in behaviour or school performance
- Has difficulty concentrating
- Is always watchful, as if they are preparing for something bad to happen
- Lacks adult supervision
- Comes to school early, stays late, and does not want to go home
- Rarely touches or looks at parent/caregiver
- State that they do not like their parent/caregiver

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- Has unexplained burns, bites, bruises, broken bones, or black eyes.
- Has fading bruises or other marks noticeable after an absence from school.
- Seems frightened of the parents and cries when it is time to go home.
- Shrinks at the approach of adults.


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- Has difficulty walking or sitting.
- Suddenly refuses to change for gym or to participate in physical activities.
- Experiences a sudden change in appetite.
- Demonstrates bizarre, sophisticated, or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior.

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- Is frequently absent from school.
- Begs or steals food or money.
- Lacks needed medical or dental care, immunizations, or glasses.
- Is consistently dirty and has severe body odour.
- Lacks proper clothing for the weather.
- Abuses alcohol or other drugs.

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- Shows extremes in behaviour, like overly demanding behaviour, or aggression.
- Is either inappropriately adult (parenting other children, for example) or inappropriately infantile (frequently rocking or head-banging, for example).
- Is delayed in physical or emotional development.
- Has attempted suicide.
- Reports a lack of attachment to the parent.




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Throughout the novel, This Boy’s Life by Tobias Wolff, the main character Jack was abused mentally and physically by his stepfather Dwight. The abusive gestures and rude comments of Dwight, challenged Jack to find his real self. Because of Dwight’s abusive behaviour, Jack gave into peer-pressure at school. Jack started to smoke and skip class at the age of eleven. This reflects Jack’s home-life. Jack gave into the pressure to smoke to become accepted, just as he allowed Dwight to abuse him in search for paternal love. The following quote shows how Jack felt after he had been abused:

"I was subject to fits of feeling myself unworthy. It didn't take much to bring this sensation to life, along with the certainty that everybody but my mother saw through me and did not like what they saw." (Wolff, 11)

Jack explains his feelings of self-loathing. Throughout Jack's childhood, he is overwhelmed by this same feeling of unworthiness, convinced that he is guilty of or responsible for things he does not have control over, such as his father's abandonment and Dwight’s abusive behaviour.

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Boys in life need time and energy from their caregivers. They must be taught by a coach or mentor in order to grow into healthy young men. Boys are overwhellemed with influences outside of the home, from friends, television, the internet, music, and movies around them. There are many horrid messages in the media which are influencing boys on how to “be a man” in a relationship. Boys need to be taught early to know that there is no place for violence in a relationship.

Teach Early: Teach your child how to properly release their anger, and what it means to be fair and treat others with respect.


Be there: Being around for your child is crucial. Children want a caregivers presence around them, even if a few words are only exchanged.


Listen: Hear what they have to say. Ask about how their friends treat girls, and if they use abusive gestures or language toward them.


Tell Him How: When he gets mad, tell him he can walk it out, talk it out, or take a time out.


Bring it up: A child will never ask their parents how to treat a woman. If you see or hear things with depict violence against women on television, tell your child what you think of it.





Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting 879,000 children were victims of child abuse:
- Neglect ~ 63%
- Physical ~ 19%
- Sexual ~ 10%
- Psychological ~ 8%

Rate of child abuse by race:
- White = 51%
- African American = 25%
- Hispanic = 15%
- American Indian/Alaska Natives = 2%
- Asian/Pacific Islanders = 1%
- 67% of victims of sexual assault were juveniles
- 34% of sexual assault victims were under age 12
- 1 of every 7 victims of sexual assault were under age 6
- 40% of offenders who victimized children under age 6 were juveniles




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Many times people think that child abuse is a private matter. It is not. If you have reasonable suspicions that a child is being abused, you should report them to the child welfare agency, provincial or territorial social services department or police force in your community. A report can be made anonymously if you do not feel comfortable reporting in your name.




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Prepared By: Amanda Liscio Prepared For: Mrs. Caravaggio Date: June, 2006 Grade Ten Media Expo


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